Critical thinking
is healthy

I was once invited indirectly to leave my religion because of my opinions. Despite criticism, I would rather promote some critical thinking so that healthy, respectful discussions might take place. I write to share a perspective, not to fit into another's personal moral code or friendship style.

Since I came to Hawaii in 2001, I have grown immensely. I met a wide variety of people of all faiths and made solid friendships, especially with those of the Jewish faith. I felt privileged in being part of the discussions of a Jewish-Palestinian group that meets monthly on Oahu to talk about issues that involve both groups. It was interesting to hear from elderly speakers about life before the British took over Palestinian lands, how Jews and Palestinian Muslims and Christians got along peacefully and how politics changed the dynamics of once good neighbors. Even more surprising was to talk to a former Israeli soldier about his role in demolishing Palestinian homes, his feelings about the conflict and questions he had about Islam, Palestinians and Arabs. Such encounters are only possible with respectful dialogues between people.

My honors thesis research on Hawaii's Muslims was achieved with the help of many Muslim islanders and University of Hawaii faculty members. I loved gathering historical information and getting in touch with the founders of Hawaii's Muslim community, but I also struggled with the significance and meaning of the diverse opinions and behaviors that local Muslims exhibit on a variety of issues.

When I look back to my own personality and beliefs before I started this research, I think I fit in at Muslim social functions only because I acted and thought as every Muslim woman is expected to think and act. Reflecting on and analyzing my research forced me to challenge my Muslim and Arab cultural views, which I had never questioned before. I think this is what true research is: to think so hard and deep that personal views are unexpectedly changed.

I write from my own personal experiences and observations, which might not hold true for other Muslims' daily realities. I have learned to go further in my journey of acquiring knowledge and understanding Islam and Muslims while staying true to my views, without hurting Islamic principles as I have come to know them.

As I leave the Hawaiian Islands in a few days, I take with me sweet memories of people I met from the military, the Muslim community and the University of Hawaii. I urge local Muslims to continue to push for positive changes in the community, such as equal opportunity for women in our mosque, and to actively participate in interfaith social activities. Vibrant communities raise vibrant individuals.