MADD offers aid
in time of tragedy

Its Victim Services unit helps people
affected by the terrorist attacks

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Star-Bulletin staff

Mothers Against Drunk Driving has a Victim Services Program that's reaching out to people touched by the recent terrorist attacks.

The organization not only assists those affected by drunken driving crashes, but also helps family and close friends of victims of homicide and other sudden violent deaths such as occurred at the Pentagon and the World Trade Center.

MADD's Victim Services Program is the second largest support service nationally, next to the Red Cross.

Services include emotional support in person or by telephone, monthly support groups in Hilo, Kona and, coming soon, Honolulu. They also provide information about the criminal justice system, advocacy in the community, court accompaniment, information and referral to community resources and support materials and literature.

The program offers these trauma recovery tips for people who feel numb, sleepless, angry and helpless because of the tragedy:

>> Try to find words to describe your reaction and share them with someone, or write in a journal.

>> Recognize that your ability to concentrate may be affected.

>> Honor differences in reacting to the Sept. 11 events since people cope in individual ways.

>> Tears are a natural reaction to internal stress and a tribute to mourning.

>> Reach out to those more directly affected and listen, rather than giving advice.

>> Limit television and radio and go for a walk or listen to calming music.

>> Do something to help, such as donating blood, sending money to organizations helping directly, flying a flag or planting a tree or perennial plant.

>> Draw on spiritual resources.

>> Seek professional support.

>> Call MADD's Victim Services Program at 532-6233 (532-MADD) or 1-888-664-6233 on the neighbor islands for assistance and information on other community resources.