Thursday, August 16, 2001
Are beggars now learning how to be choosers? Altruism has its price
Recently, I was accosted by a straightforward indigent in an unlikely place. He asked me to buy him a burger. After silently refusing, a nagging memory of a Bible story about angels in disguise persuaded me to take him up on the offer. Going to a restaurant's outdoor counter, I slipped $20 to the bartender, and indicated the man whom I wanted to receive a free meal.
On learning that I'd just bought him a meal (at a decent Mexican place, I might add), he was so filled with humble gratitude that he demanded to know how much I had given the bartender. I told him to just go order what he wanted -- I had taken care of it. He then started to demand the cash itself, and then the change.
I had already told the bartender to keep the change as a tip, and so I walked away feeling a little more cynical, and a little more skeptical about angels in disguise.
Jason Seaborn