See the world outside
By Tobin Murata
your comfort zoneAS I sit here in my home away from home, I wonder what I have done with the first third of my life. I can't help but think about what the next third holds in store.
I am leaving youth for adulthood. These are the years that I will forge ahead with my career, family and maturation. What a scary thought.
I am in Japan, teaching the art of English conversation to Japan natives. It is a good experience to leave the islands and see the world. Japan has many things to offer -- temples, shrines and natural beauty -- that must be seen firsthand. You can always engross yourself in the culture, the language, or just interact with the people.
When I think about all the Japanese-related classes I took, I could kick myself for not studying harder. Back then, the classes simply filled my schedule. I wish I had shown more interest. Now, I'm learning my lessons the hard way, by living them.
I have been in Japan for nearly four months and some of my friends have told me that I am crazy. I'm crazy because I left blue skies, warm weather and great people. Anyone who moves away certainly misses this aspect of island life. But I feel there is more to this world than paradise.
Many of my friends have closed their eyes to the wonders of the world. Many have children already, are married or continue at the same jobs they have had since high school. I think that they are the ones who are crazy.
Who in their right mind wouldn't want to be daring and bold? I do not want to cheat myself out of any possible experience by having a closed mind.
I love change. For most people, however, change is uncomfortable. People like to feel warm, cozy and safe. I know of too many people who do not grow, change or try something new simply because it takes them out of their comfort zone. They may consider doing something new, but can't act on that impulse. I like to take action on my thoughts.
I am not saying that my way is the right way, but it's the right way for me. People will often choose the path of least resistance because others tell them they will not succeed otherwise. Many of us quit before we even start!
Before you resign yourself to impending doom, ask yourself this: How do other people know what you can or cannot do? How do you know?
Only by challenging yourself by trying and doing will you be able to discover your true potential.
If I am willing to work and persevere, I'm sure I will be successful. This is the motto I carry with me every day.
Tobin Murata attended Kaimuki High School and the
University of Hawaii at Manoa before moving to Japan.Rant & Rave is a Tuesday Star-Bulletin feature
allowing those 12 to 22 to serve up fresh perspectives.
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